So my birthday is coming up

and I usually don't want a fuss. Generally I am a no fuss girl.

But I am turning 30.

So I am feeling like a bit of fuss is in order.

Nothing drastic. Nothing over the top.

A BBQ on the weekend.

And an ice cream cake.

I think that's fair.

(we used to get an ice cream cake every year for our birthdays after my mom got her pinky caught in the mixer making my little sister's birthday cake one year. So it's tradition now.)